Jeff Soilson | Quantum® ADR
Senior Mediator
5085247095
3334 East Coast Highway
Suite 739
Corona Del Mar, California 92625
Jeff Soilson | Quantum® ADR Biography
Jeff's extensive career in litigation, particularly in Divorce | Separation and Co-Parenting for three decades, showcased his dedication to advocating for clients. However, witnessing the impact of high-conflict family dynamics, especially on children, led him to create Quantum® ADR with Ashleigh. They emphasize compassionate conflict resolution, using mediation, coaching, and education to navigate interconnected relationships, even after disputes are resolved. Jeff had a deep understanding of the emotional toll that legal battles took on families,...
Jeff's extensive career in litigation, particularly in Divorce | Separation and Co-Parenting for three decades, showcased his dedication to advocating for clients. However, witnessing the impact of high-conflict family dynamics, especially on children, led him to create Quantum® ADR with Ashleigh. They emphasize compassionate conflict resolution, using mediation, coaching, and education to navigate interconnected relationships, even after disputes are resolved.
Jeff had a deep understanding of the emotional toll that legal battles took on families, especially children. His experience in high-stakes litigation made him realize the need for a more compassionate approach, especially in cases involving children. His collaboration with Ashleigh led to the creation of Quantum ADR, focusing on mediation, coaching, and education, emphasizing the interconnectedness of relationships even after disputes are resolved.
Jeff leverages over 25 years of high stakes litigation and trial expertise in divorce and family law. Throughout his career, he battled as a litigator for his clients, aiding them in court through complex and challenging win-or-lose scenarios. As his reputation flourished within legal circles, larger cases involving larger assets and higher income became the norm, enabling Jeff to litigate cases with large war chests for resources to support his clients in their quest to win.
However, Jeff's discomfort with the traditional win-lose nature of litigation, particularly in cases involving children of divorce, reshaped his approach. Witnessing firsthand the detrimental impact of high-conflict family dynamics on children, Jeff delved deeper. Serving as a court-appointed guardian ad litem, he investigates and recommended appropriate parenting plans but recognized that someone always felt aggrieved.
This realization culminated when Jeff, in roles like a parenting coordinator with decision-making authority, saw the struggle between parties to influence outcomes, leaving someone feeling like a winner and the other like a loser. Even compromise decisions left neither side content, imposed as they were by a caring yet unfamiliar authority figure.
Jeff is driven by an understanding of complexities that arise from entangled relationships.
Delving into interdisciplinary organizations to comprehend mental health nuances, issues related to parenting and substance misuse, and parent/child contact problems, Jeff honed a language to better bridge legal and mental health domains.
Now, in collaboration with Dr. Ashleigh Louis, a dual-licensed psychologist and marriage and family therapist, Jeff embraces Quantum ADR's Two-Coach Approach, employing mediation, coaching, and education. Their focus on entangled relationships, intertwined like quantum forces, advocates navigating rather than severing connections. They cherish the journey of resolving disputes while understanding that the interconnectedness endures long after conflicts are settled.
Learn more at Quantum® ADR. Book your free consultation with Jeff and Ashleigh, your Relationship Referees™️ here.
ADR Experience
Jeff's extensive career in litigation, particularly in Divorce | Separation and Co-Parenting for three decades, showcased his dedication to advocating for clients. However, witnessing the impact of high-conflict family dynamics, especially on children, led him to create Quantum® ADR with Ashleigh. They emphasize compassionate conflict resolution, using mediation, coaching, and education to navigate interconnected relationships, even after disputes are resolved. Jeff had a deep understanding of the emotional toll that legal battles took on families,...
Jeff's extensive career in litigation, particularly in Divorce | Separation and Co-Parenting for three decades, showcased his dedication to advocating for clients. However, witnessing the impact of high-conflict family dynamics, especially on children, led him to create Quantum® ADR with Ashleigh. They emphasize compassionate conflict resolution, using mediation, coaching, and education to navigate interconnected relationships, even after disputes are resolved.
Jeff had a deep understanding of the emotional toll that legal battles took on families, especially children. His experience in high-stakes litigation made him realize the need for a more compassionate approach, especially in cases involving children. His collaboration with Ashleigh led to the creation of Quantum ADR, focusing on mediation, coaching, and education, emphasizing the interconnectedness of relationships even after disputes are resolved.
Jeff leverages over 25 years of high stakes litigation and trial expertise in divorce and family law. Throughout his career, he battled as a litigator for his clients, aiding them in court through complex and challenging win-or-lose scenarios. As his reputation flourished within legal circles, larger cases involving larger assets and higher income became the norm, enabling Jeff to litigate cases with large war chests for resources to support his clients in their quest to win.
However, Jeff's discomfort with the traditional win-lose nature of litigation, particularly in cases involving children of divorce, reshaped his approach. Witnessing firsthand the detrimental impact of high-conflict family dynamics on children, Jeff delved deeper. Serving as a court-appointed guardian ad litem, he investigates and recommended appropriate parenting plans but recognized that someone always felt aggrieved.
This realization culminated when Jeff, in roles like a parenting coordinator with decision-making authority, saw the struggle between parties to influence outcomes, leaving someone feeling like a winner and the other like a loser. Even compromise decisions left neither side content, imposed as they were by a caring yet unfamiliar authority figure.
Jeff is driven by an understanding of complexities that arise from entangled relationships.
Delving into interdisciplinary organizations to comprehend mental health nuances, issues related to parenting and substance misuse, and parent/child contact problems, Jeff honed a language to better bridge legal and mental health domains.
Now, in collaboration with Dr. Ashleigh Louis, a dual-licensed psychologist and marriage and family therapist, Jeff embraces Quantum ADR's Two-Coach Approach, employing mediation, coaching, and education. Their focus on entangled relationships, intertwined like quantum forces, advocates navigating rather than severing connections. They cherish the journey of resolving disputes while understanding that the interconnectedness endures long after conflicts are settled.
Learn more at Quantum® ADR. Book your free consultation with Jeff and Ashleigh, your Relationship Referees™️ here.
At <strong><a href="http://www.quantumadr.com">Quantum® AD</a>R</strong>, we bring a combined depth of experience in <strong>family law and relational psychology</strong> to conflict resolution. <ul> <li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffsoilson/"><strong>Jeff Soilson, JD</strong></a> has over <strong>25 years of litigation experience</strong> in divorce and family law before transitioning into <strong>online ADR, mediation, and conflict coaching</strong>. His legal expertise, combined with a solutions-oriented approach, allows clients to resolve disputes efficiently without unnecessary court battles.</li> <li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleighlouis/"><strong>Ashleigh Louis, Ph.D.</strong></a>, an expert in <strong>relational psychology</strong>, brings a deep understanding of human dynamics to conflict resolution, helping clients navigate challenging conversations with clarity, emotional intelligence, and effective communication.</li> </ul> Together, we use our <strong>Two-Coach Approach™</strong>, providing <strong>online interdisciplinary coaching and Co-Mediation</strong> that blends <strong>psychology and law</strong> to support individuals and families in resolving conflicts in a structured yet flexible process. Our focus is on <strong>empowering clients</strong> to make informed decisions, reduce conflict, and move forward with confidence—whether through <strong>conflict coaching</strong> for individuals or <strong>Co-Mediation</strong> for multiple parties. Learn more at <a href="http://www.quantumadr.com">Quantum® ADR</a>. Book your free consultation with Jeff and Ashleigh, your Relationship Referees™️ <a href="https://calendly.com/d/42s-sws-3qw/quantum-adr-founder-introductions">here</a>.
Approach
At <a href="https://quantumadr.com/resources">Quantum® ADR</a>, we take an innovative, interdisciplinary approach to conflict resolution through our Two-Coach Approach™ to CoMediation and Conflict Coaching. <ul> <li>Blending Psychology & Law – We integrate relational psychology and family law expertise, ensuring both the emotional and legal dimensions of conflict are addressed simultaneously.</li> <li>Coaching & Co-Mediation Together – Whether working with one person in conflict coaching or multiple parties in Co-Mediation, both <a href="https://quantumadr.com/about">Dr. Ashleigh Louis</a> and <a href="https://quantumadr.com/about">Jeff Soilson</a> work together with clients from start to finish, providing a balanced, structured, and supportive process.</li> <li>Empowering Clients – Our approach is solution-focused, helping clients clarify their needs, explore options, and reach agreements without unnecessary legal escalation.</li> <li>Flexible & Client-Centered – We work entirely online, meeting clients where they are, on their schedule, and offering a structured process that saves time, reduces stress, and fosters resolution.</li> </ul> With our approach, clients experience a collaborative, cost-effective, and forward-thinking way to navigate conflict—one that respects their values and priorities while ensuring informed decision-making. Learn more at <a href="http://www.quantumadr.com">Quantum® ADR</a>. Book your free consultation with Jeff and Ashleigh, your Relationship Referees™️ <a href="https://calendly.com/d/42s-sws-3qw/quantum-adr-founder-introductions">here</a>.
Areas of Practice
- Adult Family
- Divorce (all issues)
- Divorce (parenting)
- Family
- Marital Mediation
- Online Family/Divorce
- Pet Mediation
- Prenuptial
- Probate
- Trust Management
Additional Services
- Collaborative Professional
- Conflict Coach
- Custody Evaluator
- Facilitator
- Fact-Finder
- Mediating Lawyer
- Mediation Consultant
- Ombuds
- Parenting Coordinator
Languages Spoken
- English
Liability Insurance
Yes